About Sharon

Tulsa Weddings & Design will help you plan your wedding with attention to detail, flawless precision and assurance of an amazing wedding day. Helping our clients create wedding memories of a lifetime has been my passion since 2005. We offer customary services ranging from Full Planning and Design to Wedding Day Management and Coordination at any stage of the planning. Tulsa Weddings & Design can assist you with knowledge of the latest industry trends, plus a great team of experienced, creative and dynamic employees to make your dreams a reality. Sharon Holm, owner, credits her business success to her sensitivity of her client’s needs and her desire to make every event an unforgettable experience. We love what we do and were honored to assist our clients with their special events.

The Mansion at Woodward Park

We had the best day enjoying the park for this photo shoot with so many talented vendors.  Breanna was gracious enough to be our model and she was fantastic as always!!!  Take a moment and enjoy our “Enchanted Forrest” style shoot.

 

 

Cassidy + Ryan

Lets talk wedding budget…

The amount you decide to spend on your wedding day is a very personal choice, and many different things must be taken into consideration. You’ll need to add up everyone’s donations, calculate the total, and know who’s paying for what. A piece of advice: Anyone from whom you decide to accept money will be granted permission to have a say in your wedding plans. 

Every wedding cannot be covered by a single budget. Every wedding is different, just like you and your soon to be spouse are, therefore your spending plan should reflect that. 

Budget planning and wedding planning are both difficult tasks. You must determine which is more important to you: having the wedding you desire on a budget or enjoying all the conveniences and paying for it later. 

A few pro tips to help access your budget. 

  • Create your guest list. You have to know how many people to plan for first. 
  • Create a list of “must have” vs “want”, this is where those hard decisions come into plan.  But will be so helpful when you begin searching for a venue. 
  • The longer the engagement is, the longer you can save up, and the more money you’ll have to work with. Keep this in mind if your vision is loftier than your wallet currently allows for.
  • Don’t be afraid to trim the guest list, less people =less dollars on food + beverages. 
  • Some venues give a discount on weekday rental. This could save you thousands of dollars just by changing your date. 

Many people don’t know that a wedding planner can help you walk through your budget, making sure it is realistic for you, your timeline, and your vision. We Would love to be that planner for you

Featured Newson6 – Sharon Holm – Tulsa Wedding & Design

https://www.newson6.com/story/63b3a3e0aedca479b446daab/oklahoma-wedding-planners-prepare-for-busiest-time-of-yearBy

Below is a transcript of that featured story by Deggs with Sharon.

Oklahoma Wedding Planners Prepare For Busiest Time Of Year (newson6.com)

OKLAHOMA WEDDING PLANNERS PREPARE FOR THE BUSIEST TIME OF THE YEAR

Wedding planners are getting ready for what they say is the busiest time of year.
The time between Thanksgiving and New Year is when the most engagements happen.

That surge means wedding planners see more couples coming through their doors.

“Typically next week is when we’ll see our busiest outpour when everybody is back to work, they have shared all the news with their friends and family, and now they’re ready to jump into the wedding planning,” said Sharon Holm, the Owner of Tulsa Weddings and Design.
Holm said the first step of wedding planning should be getting the guest list nailed down.
“Once you have that guest list made, then you have to talk to everyone who is going to be involved with the budget, and establish a budget that is fair, that you guys can work within,” said Holm.

She said that even though many of the people who got engaged before the pandemic were married this year, some venues are still booked up.

“If you are looking at a 2023 wedding date, please note that most Saturdays at venues have been reserved for a while, part of that is due to COVID, but also look at other dates of the week,” said Holm. “I didn’t think many people would come to a Wednesday wedding at noon, but they show up, and they come.”

Holm also wants couples to consider how inflation could impact their big day, and to be prepared during their planning.

“Travelling, having your guests come in, hotels, everything has increased, and does not look like it’s going to go down anytime soon,” Holm said. “Many prices will go up for 2023.”

One of the best ways to tackle the rise in prices is to cut down the number of people who are on the guest list.

“Don’t be afraid to make those hard choices and decisions to make sure your budget stretches that you want and that you have the wedding day you envision,” said Holm.

While couples often feel a sense of urgency before the big day, Holm said to try to slow down and take it one step at a time and enjoy the process.

New year, new decade!!

The new year comes with new engagements, new seasons, new fashion and décor trends…and, this year, a new decade! That said, we can’t help but feel a slight ting of nostalgia saying goodbye to  everything we witnessed in weddings this past year.

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Top 5 trends to welcome in the new year! (Spoiler alert, the rules are out)

1. Color is the new neutral
2. Mismatched bridesmaid dresses are the new standard
3. Moving the cocktail hour up to before the ceremony,
4. Food is the new art, and
5. Sustainable practices are the new expectation.

Photo Andi Bravo Photography
Venue Glass Chapel – Historically Tarp Chapel, Broken Arrow OK
Florals The French Bouquet Tulsa65A9BF30-B8E2-4692-9BB8-014C888C6350